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Post by Solana on Oct 3, 2019 12:15:54 GMT -5
All of the above would be welcome for my family right now.
On Tuesday night, my uncle was working in his woodshop and then decided to go for a bike ride. He lives in a rural area. While biking, he was hit by a car and killed.
My dad called me yesterday before I went to work, so I called in and we went up north to be with my aunt and cousins. All of the siblings except the one who lives in Tennessee was there yesterday, and he's driving up. Many of the cousins were there, too. We talked a lot and gave lots of hugs. My aunt admitted that she needed a distraction, so I brought out my phone and showed her pictures of my time in Bali and Singapore.
I hurt so badly for my cousins. This dear uncle was just fourteen months younger than my dad, and one said that her dad was her best friend. I'm also super close to mine, who taught me the ways of smoothness and puns, and just can't imagine. My good-hearted cousin wanted to hug the car driver, who is going to have to live with what happened. (It wasn't a drunk driver. Just, some really $hitty timing all around.)
My little nephew loved this uncle, too. Last weekend, he was down to help my brother get his hot rod started. My nephew grabbed two desserts from the house, and brought one out to give to my uncle and told him that he liked his "Blue F-150". (This nephew is three and loves cars.) He was already asking when he would see this uncle and his F-150 again.
I'm giving my uncle a kickass role in my next story. A heroic one.
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Post by Roas on Oct 3, 2019 18:57:42 GMT -5
That's horrible.
I'm sorry that happened, and I hope the mourning process goes as well as it can.
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Post by Rune Lai on Oct 3, 2019 20:16:51 GMT -5
*hugs*
I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending good thoughts for you and your family.
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Post by skylark on Oct 8, 2019 18:30:20 GMT -5
I'm sorry to reply so late to this.
*hugs*
It's never easy losing family. You have my prayers.
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Post by Solana on Oct 9, 2019 18:55:05 GMT -5
Thank you all so much for your wonderful words. I have no idea how many people showed up for the wake, but I have never in my life seen such a long line to pay respects. The line stretched out of the funeral home, through the parking lot, and near the sidewalk. For hours. Quite a few of my mom's siblings showed up to support her, even ones who don't often attend things. There were ex-coworkers (he and my aunt retired a few months ago) even from Alaska. We sent him off in style at the funeral. Since my cousins aren't car people, they asked my younger brother to drive my uncle's restored 1968 Mustang in the procession. My bro asked our youngest bro to be his co-pilot, and they arrived early to get the car cleaned up. That car was spotless. The best part is when they were going to bring it back to my aunt's house, and my mom told them to "do her proud". My bro opened up the pipes and roared off to cheers, applause, and fist pumps. My aunt and cousins loved the tribute. It's amazing what one photo of my uncle at the funeral inspired... I'm trying to focus on the tribute and keeping a part of my uncle's awesomeness alive, but it's still a tough road. Good to have so many awesome people around for support.
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Post by Solana on May 3, 2021 17:23:36 GMT -5
(Sigh) On May Day, my uncle called to let us know that the youngest sister on my dad's side had passed away. We're not entirely sure how it happened, as there were a few medical possibilities, but now the 9th and 10th children out of 11 are gone. My dad's siblings are very good about coming together and planning, as my aunt was single with no children.
As with last time, I've already cooked up a wonderful cameo for this aunt, and it's been helping. My mom and I are going to plant wildflowers around our shed as a tribute. My coworkers and friends have been fantastic with support.
Still, dammit...
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Post by Rune Lai on May 4, 2021 1:43:39 GMT -5
*hugs*
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